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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH GIRARDVILLE Vigil of Holy Family 05:30 pm EDWARD and KATHRYN (Cuff) KUCHINSKY by their family Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph 11:30 am EDWARD L. GALLAGHER by Kay Ellen Kuchinsky St. Thomas Becket, bishop, martyr (OptMem) 08:00 am EDWARD W. KULL by his wife, Barbara, and family St. Sylvester, pope (OptMem) 08:00 am ROBERT McKEON by Joe Matulaitis Vigil: Mary Mother of God 05:30 pm MARY HALEY by Neil and Carol Houtz Mary Mother of God (Sol) 11:30 am REGINA GOWNLEY by John and Mary Becker SS. Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen, bishops, doctors (OblMem) 08:00 am ELEANOR MARCONI by Anna Marie Vivacqua Holy Name of Jesus (Fst) 08:00 am DECEASED: StJosPar MEMORIAL SOCIETY by St. Joseph Parish Vigil of Epiphany 05:30 pm EDWARD and KATHRYN (Cuff) KUCHINSKY by their family The Epiphany of the Lord 11:30 am CHARLES A. RINALDO Sr. by Albert and Annetta Yackenchick and family |
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SAINT Vincent dePAUL CHURCH GIRARDVILLE Vigil of Holy Family 04:00 pm JOSEPH DOMBROWSKI by his family Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph 08:30 am KAREN WEYMAN by M/M Harold Doyle 6th Day in the Octave of Christmas 08:00 am JOHN J. DALFONSO Sr.(38th anniversary) by his family Vigil: Mary Mother of God 04:00 pm EDWARD M. WASCAVAGE by his sister, Samantha Mary Mother of God (Sol) 08:30 am Deceased: POPECK FAMILY by Frank and Rose Vigil of Epiphany 04:00 pm EDWARD M. WASCAVAGE by David, Mary Lou and Eddie Bickowski The Epiphany of the Lord 08:30 am CHARLES S. DAVIES and CHARLES H. DAVIES by their family |
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Saint Vincent DePaul Parish: $743.00 from the Sunday envelopes; $111.00 from the second collection (plate); $68.00 from the loose. Thank you. |
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Tuesday, 30 December 03:00 to 04:00 pm in St. Joseph Chapel 10:30 to 11:30 pm in St. Joseph Chapel 06:00 to 07:00 pm in St. Vincent dePaul Church |
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10:00 pm to 12:00 midnight St. Joseph Chapel Friday, 02 January 5:00 to 8:00 pm St. Vincent dePaul Church |
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THIS IS A TRUE STORY. MAKE
OF IT WHAT YOU WILL. MY GUARDIAN DEAR, TO WHOM GODS LOVE ENTRUSTS ME HERE, EVER THIS DAY BE AT MY SIDE, TO LIGHT AND GUARD, TO RULE AND GUIDE. AMEN. |
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16 Dec 08 DEAR TOO QUICK: |
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DEAR TOO QUICK: I hope I am not being too quick here. However, I am quite certain that Felix is having sex with a woman to whom he is not married. Did you know that? Felix is a fornicator! And an unrepentant one at that! And you are thinking about marrying an unrepentant fornicator? Not only is he a fornicator, but he is mooching off the gal as well, letting her pay the rent and the groceries and the insurance and God knows what else! Do you really want to marry a mooching fornicator? For crying out loud, dear lady, where are the brains you were born with? Dont you realize that Felix is not only a moocher and a fornicator, but he is also a liar? He is lying to this pathetic girl when he says that he plans to marry her after a couple of years when he gets a good job. He is playing that girl for a fool! Do you really want to marry a lying, mooching fornicator? Didnt your Daddy or somebody ever warn you about the man who boasted to his buddies that he didnt have to buy a cow because he got free milk morning, noon and night? |
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Throw Felix out into the exterior darkness, where
there is wailing and gnashing of teeth. And be quick about it!
You can do better than Felix! But if, by any chance, you cant do better than Felix, then better no man at all than such a poor excuse for a man as Felix! Let me explain something to you that is extremely basic but seems not to be known nearly as well as it should by young women. It is this: There are two kinds of girls who have sex before they get married dumb girls and bad girls. Bad girls who have sex before marriage are those who are promiscuous, who have managed to make a complete disassociation between copulation and commitment, between copulation and conception. These are the girls who, for all practical purposes, have simply prostituted themselves. Believe me, they are very hard to deal with. May God have pity on them! Dumb girls who have sex before marriage are girls like you who, although they are not married as a matter of actual fact, nonetheless are psychologically married to the young man with whom they are engaging in sexual activity. Every time such girls engage in sexual relations with their partners, they are doing so in expectation of marriage or, I might say, under the illusion of marriage. They are saying to themselves, Well, even though he and I are not technically married, we are married for all practical purposes. Its just a matter of time before we actually walk up the aisle and make it official. So, this man with whom I am performing this act is really my husband, because Im not the kind of girl who would have sex with a guy who is not my husband! HOWEVER, let me clue you: The guy (in your case, Felix) with whom the dumb girl is having sex is having no such thoughts. He does NOT think of you as his wife. He thinks of you as a nice girl to whom I certainly give a lot of credit for making it so convenient for me to have sex almost anytime I want it. You may be certain that, if you cut him off for any considerable period of time, he will have a contingency plan, perhaps already does. Then he will make jokes about you to his buddies, because you will have hurt his male pride. The dumb girl realizes then that the erstwhile boyfriend never really cared about her at all because he was all wrapped up in himself. The sex was all about him. Remember: He is a liar. Thats how he makes his way in life. Lying is what he does. May I make a suggestion? Once you get rid of Felix, you will have more time on your hands for worthwhile pursuits. I suggest that you visit your local Catholic parish and make inquiries about becoming a Catholic. If, by any chance, you are already a Catholic, then go visit your local Catholic parish and make inquiries about their schedule of Confessions and, of course, their Mass schedule. Turn over a new leaf and go to Confession. Just because Felix seems content to go to Hell, there is no reason for you to go there too. EBC |
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DOROTHY A. (BECK) CATIZONE, Eternal rest grant unto Dorothy, O Lord,
and let the perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and
the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of
God, rest in peace. Amen. |
| PERSONS WHO READ THE BULLETIN CLOSELY might notice that the funeral Masses for Mrs. Catizone and for Mr. Wilkinson are both scheduled for 11:00 am on 29 December. A reasonable person might wonder how Fr. Connolly is going to manage being at both churches simultaneously. Has he been given the gift of bi-location? The answer is No, he has not. Fr. Connolly will celebrate the Mass for Mr. Wilkinson. Fr. Brennan will celebrate the Mass for Mrs. Catizone. I am grateful to Fr. Brennan for being available |
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A CANDLE IN HONOR OF THE INFANT
OF PRAGUE was lit at St. Vincent dePaul
Church in memory of the deceased members of the Karvois and Connell
families, at the request of the Connell family. THE SANCTUARY CANDLE at St. Vincent dePaul Church was lit in memory of Edward M. Wascavage, at the request of his parents, sister and grandparents. |
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RAYMOND GEORGE WILKINSON, Eternal rest grant unto Raymond, O Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen. |
| THE GIVING TREES at our two churches will remain up until next Sunday (4 Jan). Thank you to those who have brought gifts for babies. If you have not yet brought such a gift, please do so by next Sunday at the latest |
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ONE WAY OF SPENDING NEW YEARS
EVE is to open a bottle or two or three
or four of some alcoholic beverage and proceed to get bombed
out of ones mind. I respectfully suggest that this is not a good idea. Let me tell you how I plan to spend New Years Eve. I plan to go over to St. Joseph Chapel a little before ten of the clock post meridian and there expose the Blessed Sacrament. Then I think Ill pray a little. Ill pray for myself (always a good idea) that I dont wind up going to hell. I figure its not too likely that I will go to hell, but I dont want to be presumptuous, so a prayer along those lines is always a good idea. Then Ill pray for my family, that none of them will go to hell. I doubt that any of them will but, again, a little humility in that regard is praiseworthy. Then Ill pray for all the members of St. Vincent dePaul Parish and St. Joseph Parish, that none of them will go to hell. That is my duty as pastor. Besides, there are a few members Im kind of worried about. What I would like is that a few (maybe even more than a few) persons would join me for those last two hours of 2008. How about it? Of course someone might call you a religious fanatic if you spend the last two hours of the year in prayer before the Lord, but you could be called worse. |
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of MARY THE MOTHER OF GOD Please note that this coming Thursday the first of January is a HOLYDAY OF OBLIGATION! ALL CATHOLICS, SEVEN YEARS OF AGE AND OLDER, UNLESS IMPEDED BY CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THEIR CONTROL, ARE OBLIGED TO ATTEND MASS EITHER ON THE HOLYDAY ITSELF OR ON THE VIGIL. The Mass schedule is identical to the Sunday Mass schedule: 4:00 pm at St. Vincent dePaul Church 5:30 pm at St. Joseph Church 8:30 am at St. Vincent dePaul Church 11:30 am at St. Joseph Church **************************************** MARIA THEOTOKOS! |